I didn’t have the marriage I wanted, I didn’t know why and I didn’t know how to get it. Turns out that my husband had not been honest with me, he was keeping secrets from me. I am married to an amazing man! He is a loving and kind husband, father and Opa. He is hard working; he loves people and serving them.  And he has struggled with pornography use and sexually compulsive behaviors for much of his life. When we had been married for about 17 years, I couldn’t trust my husband. For a year I asked him questions trying to know if he was trustworthy. He lied to me in his answers. Then one day,  I decided it must be me. That I was allowing Satan into my head and telling me not to trust my husband. When I told him this, my husband told me about his pornography use and his sexually acting out. I hadn’t known about it before this time. My life was shattered!  We got the help that was available at the time, which wasn’t much. We worked on our healing with the resources we could find. When we had been married 30 years, I discovered he was having an affair. Again, life shattered!. We decided that our marriage and family was worth fighting for. So we went to work to find healing! I am one of those people that says that I am grateful for this experience because it has made me who I am…a work in progress for sure…growing through what I go through. I know about feeling like my heart was impaled. I know about self-imposed isolation. I know about long, sleepless nights just waiting for morning to come and bring daylight. I know about lying on the floor of the shower in a fetal position and crying so my kids wouldn’t hear me. AND I also know how to find healing! AND I can help you find healing too!. Now my  life is better than before betrayal ! 

I would love to help you on your journey of healing! Let me  show you the way to make your life  better than before betrayal too!